YOU

In times of great sorrow and pain, people tend to try and help share part of the load. To try and take at least some of the agony that you're feeling.They will try to cheer you up by taking your mind off of what you're going through. They will make fun of you to relieve the pressure you're putting on yourself. They will try anything and everything in their power as any good friend would to help ease your suffering.But no matter how hard anyone tries, ultimately, the burden of carrying all the hurt lies solely on yourself.Ultimately, when you absolutely positively undeniably have to take a dump and relieve yourself from the misery of sweating profusely and ending the stomach cramps, nobody...I say NOBODY, has the power to help take it all away.Your pain is yours alone. And only YOU have the power to stop it.

Memories

Memories are like waves breaking on the mind.The ebb and flow of time can be seen by watching them.When the ship of life sets sail and is on a steady course our gaze is fixed on the present. shifting now and then to the horizon of the future.When tossed by loss or grief ,the waves build up from the past and roll toward the shore.Memories indeed are real,as real as happenings now or what the future holds.